The “fate worst than death” for a man, supposedly, is to rob him of his manhood. Castration – the removal of the testicles, and emasculation – the removal of both penis and scrotum are the ultimate punishments and – of course – way beyond the bounds of safe, sane, consensual SM. But threats of removal of, or permanent damage to, the genitals can be important components of an SM scene. In other words, indulging the fantasy.

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Here we go with a couple of ideas. Many as the first stage of this emasculation regard shaving of the pubic hair. Thus, a slave is kept shaved as a badge of his status as “less than a man.”

Another way to simulate emasculation is through genital isolation. Imagine a slave restrained to a wall (facing it) with his penis and balls forced through a hole in the wall and locked in place with a sliding panel (the gay community usually calls this a Hell Whole, for good reasons). He cannot be seen from the opposite side of the wall, but his genitals are there to be examined and played with. If he doesn’t like what is done to them, that is tough, there is nothing he can do about it.

Imagine what could be done to the genitals if you had a ball stretcher, weights, a tube of Bengay, clothespins, a miniature whip and a pair of pliers. Other techniques of genital isolation include the genitals restrained in a genital pillory, through a chain link fence and padlocked in place, through the bars of a cage, through a mesh hammock to which the slave is bound face down. Should the slave be blindfolded or not? Is it better for him to be able to see what is coming or is it better for it to be a total surprise until he feels it?
For a safe, sane and consensual version of these scenes, the victims hips should be tied solidly against the obstruction so he does not damage himself by jerking back too violently, or by passing out and hanging from his point of attachment.

A fairly common method of genital isolation is to mummify a man in saran wrap, duct tape, a bondage suit, wax covered gauze, or some other media and leave his genitals exposed for his pain and pleasure.
O, by the way, wrapping his cock in duct (or sports) tape BEFORE shaving him (and of course tearing it off again later) makes a great punishment and it will make the shaving operation a lot more delicate to him as well. Just imagine tying him down, taping his genitals and leaving him to await his fate for a while (don’t forget to give him a vivid description of what is to happen later before leaving him alone and helpless for a while).